Lisa I read this book cover-to-cover on a cold January day, beside the fire. But before that, I read two chapters that pushed me to my computer so I could rant and rave about the unfairness of the world towards boys. It started out as a blog but became far too personal and angry, so it will remain in the private archives.
But it is easy to say that this book struck a chord with me.
The setting is a private school in Vermont and the story is about a tragedy that strikes when three boys have sex with a freshman and how the consequences of that one simple action destroyed a web of lives.
Shreve does not hand you the story on a silver platter ... no, you must go through chapters with new character voices and try to figure out who they are, occasionally returning to a familiar character, only to be tossed back into the hands of maybe the school lunch lady. You see, small actions affect everyone one way or another.
What touched me at the start of the book was you are told straight up that the girl knew what she was doing. She might have been 14, but she was out trolling for these guys, and due to really one catalyst, these otherwise smart, ambitious and well-meaning boys ended up drinking too much and doing things with the girl that were caught on tape and then put onto Youtube. It's something that could happen to anyone ... and the mother's in the book broke my heart. As one mother said:
What do I want to say to the mothers of sons? Something hurts these boys, and I don't know what it is. Take away the alcohol. If you suspect a problem, there is a problem. Don't let them get away with even the very first lie. Be vigilant."
Because what she is saying is that if you just let them be ... it could turn out very bad. Made my hair stand on end!
And this from one of the "rapists."
I just don't get it. You take all those other days of the year -- 364 of them. And all that pressure to get into a good college. And three hours a night of homework, plus all those hours of practice and games and Saturday school ... So you take all those hours and you put them up against one hour of getting wasted and acting like a jerk, and that one hour defines your life? Forever?
I understand I have to pay. I get that part. My question is this: For how long?
It's a very rich book in that it touches on so many layers. Like I said, Shreve doesn't hand it to you, you have to think about it. But she gives you all the ingredients.
I recommend it. And don't forget to stoke the fire!
Hallie
A very intense and frustrating read. I always find it hard to read about peoples lives being destroyed for a reason that could have been avoided if someone had just spoken out. It was very well written and you feel for the three boys who are accused of this horrible act. The book ties together very nicely with a letter written by one of the nicest, most respectful guys and leaves you feeling hopeful as the boy states that yes this changed his life from the path he and everyone was expecting to follow but it did not ruin it. From now on he will just move in a direction that was never expected. A very truthful and amazing truth to recognize when he could have just continued to be a bitter guy or the rest of his life.